Doja Cat’s Family in Turmoil: Mother Seeks Restraining Order Against Son
In a startling turn of events, Doja Cat’s family finds itself embroiled in a legal battle, with the singer’s mother, Deborah Elizabeth Sawyer, filing a restraining order against her son, Raman Dalithando Dlamini, Doja’s elder brother. The disturbing allegations brought forth in the legal documents, exclusively obtained by TMZ, unveil a harrowing narrative of verbal and physical abuse perpetrated by Dlamini against both his mother and sister, leaving them traumatized and living in fear.
Allegations of Physical and Verbal Abuse
Sawyer’s sworn declaration, filed in Los Angeles Superior Court, paints a distressing picture of the abuse allegedly endured by Doja, whose legal name is Amala Ratna Zandile Dlamini. The documents claim that Dlamini, 30, has subjected his sister to physical violence, resulting in knocked-out teeth and visible cuts and bruises on her body. While the exact timeline of these alleged assaults remains unclear, the severity of the accusations is deeply troubling.
The legal filing further accuses Dlamini of engaging in relentless verbal abuse, speaking to his sister “in a very degrading and demeaning manner” that has left her feeling deeply distressed and emotionally scarred. Sawyer also alleges that Dlamini has engaged in acts of destruction and theft, damaging and stealing Doja’s property, exacerbating her sense of vulnerability and fear.
A Troubled Family History
The Dlamini family’s history is marked by complexities and challenges. Doja and her brother were raised in an ashram in the Los Angeles area by their mother, an artist and fashion designer, after their father, a South African dancer and actor, returned to his home country. Doja has publicly stated that she does not maintain a relationship with her father and credits her mother as the primary inspiration for her pursuit of the arts.
However, Dlamini’s presence in the family has been characterized by “behavioral issues” and a tendency to dominate the household’s emotional space, according to Alexis Haines, who babysat Doja and Dlamini during their childhood. Haines’ comments, made in a 2021 Rolling Stone profile of Doja, suggest that Dlamini’s actions may have overshadowed Doja’s own emotional needs and experiences.
Legal Proceedings and Restraining Order Request
Sawyer’s legal filing reveals that she had previously obtained a restraining order against Dlamini, but it had since expired. In her current request for a restraining order, the judge granted Sawyer court-ordered protection pending a hearing, recognizing the urgency of the situation. However, the judge denied Doja’s request for a restraining order, citing the need for her to file her own paperwork.
Conclusion
The allegations against Raman Dlamini are deeply troubling and highlight the importance of addressing domestic violence and abuse within families. The legal process will determine the validity of these claims and the appropriate consequences for any wrongdoing. It is crucial that Doja Cat and her mother receive the necessary support and protection during this challenging time.